Anthropomorphising? Maybe or maybe not
Interesting revelations...
finally had a break in the weather today, so took Giddy out for a short walk in hand down the road. We were only out for 10mins or so; played with mirroring each other's speed at walk, slow, really slow, medium and fast and mixed it up; she was pretty interested in this little game
Brought them up this evening from the field, and for the first time in literally weeks, she walked up nicely; it has been a pretty dicey experience of late sloshing around in deep mud through a fairly narrow gap with the two of them, Giddy has seemed to think it great fun to try and squash me between her and lightning, and there is very little room to try and block her
It has given me great cause for thought that such a small amount of interaction made such a HUGE difference. It shows that it's not just about respect - a dominant left brain mare she may be, but clearly she does like, and respond to even just a little bit of focused bonding and relationship building. More than anything, I think its about doing things with her, rather than to her, or making her go through the motions of the seven games; especially when i fall into the trap of being over demanding and critical, which with her being short, left brain and very dominant is literally the worst way to be
I have to admit that life has been so demanding of late, that i tend to fly around the stables, muck out, feed, chuck them in the field, put them back in stables, pick feet out etc, but my mind is generally elsewhere and churning over work
Today though, i was totally with her, in the moment, and focused on doing something together, and the change in the way she came up from the field was dramatic
It does inspire me a little, as have lost some motivation with my parelli journey of late with the arthritis seeming to make it all such a massive mountain, but the principles of the programme, and what i love about it have really hit home today
Note to self, must spend more time with my horse and throw work out the window for at least a short period every day, otherwise really whats the point!!!!